Being honest with yourself is hard to do if you are used to pleasing others first. In fact, Bill Cosby once indicated that if you are trying to please everyone, then you are likely to fail. That is why integrity in every aspect of your search is essential for success. Although you have to possess the skills, and the accomplishments to demonstrate competency, unless you are honest to your core beliefs about where you want to be, your life and career search can crash and burn. You have to know what you want. Honest with your family Everything about the working hours and the type of career you desire should be on the table. I believe that it will help to have clarity as there are many decisions that are all connected to another. The pursuit of any opportunity should feel like a family decision (between both spouses). Honest with yourself The hardest thing about hearing a lot advice from many places is deciding what is best for you. There is advice that is just that…advice. Then there is understanding your talents, achievements to date, and abilities. If you decide against advice because it’s challenging, and don’t engage because it’s easy. There should be people in your life that have good judgment to help you filter the good and bad. Honest with an potential employer Lying about a job or experience is a problem, but committing or agreeing to something that does not seem right is a problem too. If there are hours, salary, or relationships that you cannot sacrifice don’t express enthusiasm and say you are happy to do it. You can always think about it after getting advice. However, without question, don’t agree to any suggestion that is unlawful or violates your conscience. If you need some honest coaching, and job search direction, please let me know. ...
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